These boys wanna get to know you, they claim they are decent, hunky and have alot to offer, yet.... why on the IRC looking up girls? if you are decent, hunkey, hot, good looking and have everything to offer, we'd think you be probably be too busy with girls and social life for the irc.
20 favourite phrases guys use to get to know you
We have noted a frequent use of the same repeititive thing over and over. Do they ring a bell? Sound familiar? You judge!
1. introz? hihiz!
2. breast big not? cup size?
3. u der? (for this one, the guys use it repeitively regardless if there is anyone even paying attention to them)
4. chat dirty?
5. u open?
6. wanna meet?
7. got pic?
8. ht/wt? (height/weight)
9. asl? (age/sex/location)
10. u virgin?
11. where u stay?
12. which school?
13. attached? got bf?
14. how many ex u got?
15. number?
16. got masturbate b4?
17. cyber?
18. call me now pls, pls
19. i horny
20. u provide service? i pay good
Here is a chat log with a guy this evening who used most of these lines to 'get to know' us: Session Start: Wed Sep 21 21:24:23 2005 [Timmothy] hi [Timmothy] care 2 intro? <****> hello <****> 15f [Timmothy] live where? <****> hougang [Timmothy] u there? [Timmothy] u there? [Timmothy] live where? <****> hougang [Timmothy] have bf? ur height/weight? <****> yeap <****> 172 56 [Timmothy] photo? <****> nope [Timmothy] r u virgin? <****> yes [Timmothy] think of sex? <****> nope [Timmothy] think of sex? <****> nope [Timmothy] got masturbate? <****> nope -----he didnt even tell us anything about himself and he just keeps asking. Spot the same ol' lines these guys use?
If anyone comes up to you on the IRC and displays such questions then asks you to be his gf... there is definitely something wrong. Its impossible for anyone to want a gf for serious relationship after getting to know her vital stats.
If a guy wants to know you and is really interested to get to know you, he will take his time and make sure that he knows you and your friends well. Relationships are never about sex or being physical. If your boyfriend is too touchy and keeps making a move on you, stop him if you feel uncomfortable and not ready. Don't think about how he feels when you stop him, you have every right to look out for yourself.
You have to remember, that body is yours and not his. He has to respect you and not use crappy excuses like "BUT I THOUGHT YOU LOVE ME? WHY DON'T LET ME TOUCH?" BULLSHIT! If he loves you he will want you to be comfortable and will respect you and wait for you to be ready. Touching and being physical does not equal to love. Love is more about understanding each other's needs, trust and respect. Keep to that girls. Never let a guy take advantage of you. Being too physical early in the relationship should also sound danger signals in your brain. It is not right for a guy to want to jump straight into your pants after getting together with you. Being together with you is not a ticket to sex. Remember, it does not mean that if he touches you, he loves you.
Before you get together with him, get to know his personality, don't judge based on looks because looks can be deciving. The more handsome the guy, the more insecurity issues you will suffer in the relationship with all the other girls flocking him. But this is not always true, trust your instincts, listen to what your friends have to say about him and his character and make your own judgements. Don't mop over someone who doesn't want to be with you because you won't be physical with him and then start blaming yourself and throw yourself at him because you "love" him. If you really do something like that for the sake of keeping someone, then we'd say you are stupid. If you fall down in any relationship, move on and think of it as a lesson, its not the end of the world. Everyone learns through experience. Being heartbroken and sad is completely normal, but once you start clinging on to something that has been lost and will never return to you, wake up and think if the guy really even bothers about how you feel and how happy he is with his friends after you two have broken up compared to how miserable you are. Show him you can do without him as well. Stand tall, walk proud. Occupy yourself. Be strong because you are and because your friends are there for you and believe in you.
We hope this helps you girls as a guide. Do not ever get cheated by guys. If you girls have any questions regarding relationships and boys, feel free to e-mail us :)
Girls, there is no such thing as "LOVE at first chat (on the IRC)"
she left that guy dangling naked, with nowhere to hide his bits 7:24 PM
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A crew of girls setting out to fish out the moral wrongs of internet meetings and what really goes on during the chat.
These men have shamed the name of the male gender.
Regardless of legal or illegal age for the males requesting for sex, it is a downright insult to females to have men asking for sex within 2 mins into an introduction.
Females deserve more respect than being used as a sex toy, satisfying male sexual urges.
We bring to you the uncensored ugliness of the internet chatzone that the media has failed to bring to our attention
Society may be more open today but it does not give anyone the right to assume that females can be treated as commodities that can be bought off the shelf nor that females are stores which men can walk in and out of whenever they fancy.
UPDATES! (23 Feb 2007)
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Watch for what others and we have to say on 27th Feb (next tuesday), 8.30pm
this blog should serve as an educational eye opener to the singapore virtual chatzone particularly to the young ladies exploring the world of net-meeting
This blog is crude, obnoxious and does not care for any resemblance in chat patterns observed.
Thats how the real world is like
What you see may not be what you get
this site serves as a warning to all the men out there
that whoever you're chatting with might not
be a sweet pussy but a conviving one
Whatever your mother tells you about the
dangers of internet chatroom meeting...
...she is not joking nor exaggerating
enjoy your stay here.
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