She is underaged and wanted sex. She is a stranger to you but "what the heck.. she is offering her pussy!". After sex, you pay her if needed then she leaves. A few days later the police come knocking on your door and before you know it, you are charged for having sex with a minor. That is one scenario. Or, she could blackmail you asking for more money or she tattles to the police.
As you've read recent articles published on the newspapers regarding underaged girls solicitating for sex online. We're aware of such issues happening, though we've yet to experience it online; when we posed as guys on the IRC, we didnt have any girls clicking on us initiating chats. We decided to pretend to be like guys by initiating the chat going "hihi" or "introz" or "chat dirty"- the usual lines guys use. So far, when we asked "chat dirty?" or "you open?" the girls stop talking to us and shun away. We have not given up and and still have a few crew members pursuing male pretence to get a female chat log.
The issue the newspaper highlights is the fact that young girls are not as naive as they turn out to be. Then again, it is unfair to completely sterotype all underaged girls to be coniving and scheming greedy kids. There are a minority of girls who resort to such methods to get money. You would be surprised that some who resort to such schemes not because they are poor or have poor family background. Rather, they come from well-to-do backgrounds with parents working. Psychologists have confirmed that such behavior is caused by a lack of attention showered by working parents that these teens feel the need to prove themselves and feel wanted. Other reasons for such behavior is mostly due to troubled financial situations whether its to help self or help boyfriend/family etc.
Materialistic underaged barbies also exist in this category. With the rise and advancement in technology toys and the heightened brand consciousness between kids as early as the age of 9, they don't just want any school bag or pencil case anymore. It must be branded. Their friends have the latest handphones and Mp3 players, they need one too to feel good about themselves and put themselves on a higher social ladder in school. Brands like Gucci, Louis Vuitton (LV)are no longer brands that the older generation dream about and drool over. Teens talk about owning a wallet or tote bag like their parents. The media's over emphasis in popular television drama series and advertisements depict beautiful people owning such accessories and clothings, making expensive branded goods a must-have to look good and feel good. Hollywood stars as young as 16 making a name for themselves having everything a teen dreams of. These hollywood star's lives are never a secret from the press. Their sexual, love and family lives make headlines on the gossip columns in magazines and entertainment news. Teenagers who worship certain hollywood princesses follow in their footsteps, whether its engaging in premarital sex or owning a closet full of branded clothes.
Such article splashed on the papers are a warning to men to keep your pet snake in that tank. Make sure to check that the girl you are planning to have sex with especially if its a stranger is at least legal. Even if an underaged girl is willing to have sex with you, it does not mean she can keep her mouth shut. If she tells her friends who leak to teachers etc, you get into trouble still. The legal age to engage in sex with a girl is 16.
Personally we feel that the age limit is too young. A 16 year old is still a developing teenager exploring the unknowns. The crew would propose the government to increase the age limit to 18. 18 and more would be a more mature, suitable age especially with all these teen pregnancies and irresponsible boyfriends in existance and teens getting infected with AIDs and HIV, at 16 onwards.
Unwanted pregnancy at a tender age like 16 for a female is not a easy solution of aborting the child. Abortion comes with costs. Emotional, psychological, physical and mental costs. Females are the ones who pay the price for irresponsible behavior; reason for why not all females are loose. Sterotyping and generalising females as holes for males to drive their penis into is an outrage.
Males, keep your horny levels in check, check their age, look at their IC if you need to. Or the tables might be turned.
For Her: He who Expliots You
Majority of women look for love when looking for a man in their life. They want that fairytale that movies depict complete with the butterflies in their stomach and fireworks in each other's eyes. After knowing one another and loving each other so much, sex or intimacy enters the picture. Some boyfriends enjoy watching their girlfriends pose for the camera nude as they find it sexy or think of their girlfriends pin-up models of their own.
(pls note, not all relationships and men are into taking nude pictures of their girlfriends. However, such cases do exist. Read Today's featured headline "pay up or appear nude online" on the "home" front page.)
Then the trouble begins...
Problems arise in the relationship ranging from family disapproval to finances etc. Girlfriend wants to break up but boyfriend threatens "if you leave me, I will post up your pictures online. NUDE!"
There are cases where pictures are taken and money is the one brought up and the girl is blackmailed. (read "home" front page today's edition)
Another scenario is where girls who are doing paid sex are not aware that hidden cameras are fixated at certain spots in the room. These cameras record activity in the room and the male may turn around to use the video against the girl for more "free" sex/money or else this tape goes to her parents/media/shared files for others to download.
Girls, please becareful about such issues, a guy you love can turn into a monster overnight when it comes to a nasty break up which he does not want to let go leaving him to make you stay with threats such as nude pictures he has of you. Do not let yourself be easily "cheapened" by taking nude pictures as much as you love the guy. It is already enough that the guy is the only one who is going to be exposed to your naked self in sexual activity, taking a picture or video to make it a memory is not needed. It only creates trouble for yourself especially. Protect yourself. Making videos and pictures and him keeping it puts you at a disadvantage. Males have a sexual ego for having 'conquered' a girl. However, girls do not have such egos.
Do not let your modesty be outraged. Be smart and protect yourself. If things get out of hand, inform the needed authorities to assist you.
***** The above two articles are the crew's personal opinion, any comments can be e-mailed which will be read and replied.
she left that guy dangling naked, with nowhere to hide his bits 5:17 PM
WebWhore
who's your daddy mama?
_that sexy devil behind the screen_
A crew of girls setting out to fish out the moral wrongs of internet meetings and what really goes on during the chat.
These men have shamed the name of the male gender.
Regardless of legal or illegal age for the males requesting for sex, it is a downright insult to females to have men asking for sex within 2 mins into an introduction.
Females deserve more respect than being used as a sex toy, satisfying male sexual urges.
We bring to you the uncensored ugliness of the internet chatzone that the media has failed to bring to our attention
Society may be more open today but it does not give anyone the right to assume that females can be treated as commodities that can be bought off the shelf nor that females are stores which men can walk in and out of whenever they fancy.
UPDATES! (23 Feb 2007)
We'll be on Channel News Asia's Blogtv.sg
Watch for what others and we have to say on 27th Feb (next tuesday), 8.30pm
this blog should serve as an educational eye opener to the singapore virtual chatzone particularly to the young ladies exploring the world of net-meeting
This blog is crude, obnoxious and does not care for any resemblance in chat patterns observed.
Thats how the real world is like
What you see may not be what you get
this site serves as a warning to all the men out there
that whoever you're chatting with might not
be a sweet pussy but a conviving one
Whatever your mother tells you about the
dangers of internet chatroom meeting...
...she is not joking nor exaggerating
enjoy your stay here.
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